Beauty

Pregnancy Q&A’S

When are you due?
Our BABY GIRL is due early July!!!!!!

When did you know you wanted to start trying?
I would have started the night of the wedding (end of March), BUT I wanted to be able to go on my honeymoon in Bora Bora and fully enjoy it (end of August). Plus, that allowed to me have one last summer to be totally selfish.

How long did it take you, once you started trying?
We were VERY lucky, it only took us 3-4 months. I basically fake tried in July. I was getting anxious to start and thought I was ovulating because my phone app told me I was. So I was like let’s just do it and see what happens. That month I was the most psycho EVER about taking pregnancy tests. So I count that month, just because I had to go through the mind fuck of it all. We tried August, September, and it finally stuck in October.

Did you use any apps?
I used Ovia, and Period Tracker. Start tracking your period asap. It helps you grasp how long your cycle actually is.

Any tips or tricks that you believed helped you conceive?

1. I hadn’t been on birth control for over 6 years. It made me crazy, plus I truly believe that your body should get it’s period when it wants to, not when fake hormones are telling it to.

2. I’ve always been a fan of acupuncture, even before I started trying I was getting it done monthly. The month I ended up getting pregnant, I was getting it done every week in line with where my cycle was.  If you need a recommendation in NYC – message me!

3. Whenever I was at home relaxing I would keep a heating pad on my stomach. I probably did this for a solid year. My Chinese medicine doctor told me my lower body was cold, and it would be hard to conceive so to start this as soon as possible. Who knew if it really helped, but I still do it to this day.

4. I used ovulation kits ( Clearblue and First Response), and kept track of everything on apps (Period Tracker and Ovia)

5. As silly as it sounds, I also just tried to visualize myself pregnant. The power of the mind is something so magical. It’s really hard to not get down about not getting pregnant when it’s all you want. But it’s best to remain positive (as much as you can) and know that the baby you are meant to have will come at the time when it’s suppose to come.

When did you find out you were pregnant?
Before work, at 5 am on October 30th!

How did you tell Jim you were pregnant?
The night before I found out, I knew I was going to wake up and take a pregnancy test. I told myself that if it came back positive I was going to wait until Jim got home from work to surprise him. Well I peed on the stick, 2 lines showed up and there was no way I was going to wait over 12 hours to tell my husband. I literally ran into our bedroom, woke Jim up and started hysterically crying while showing him the stick. It was such an amazing, surreal moment that I will never forget.

What do you do for your workout?
Tracy Anderson 6-7x a week. Her method is genius, and she has programs specially designed for expecting Mamas. I’ve also seen first hand how quickly women bounce back after having their baby when doing her method throughout their pregnancy. I did cut back drastically during my first trimester, I wanted to play it safe (if you speak TA I did custom for my first trimester and no cardio.) But when I was safely in my second trimester I  amped it up and started taking Attain again and adding in 30 mins of cards when I feel like I want that extra boost. (I also have a fan on my at all times, and make sure to modify and take breaks as much as I need to.)

Have you had any morning sickness?
SOOOOO during my first trimester I had NONE! I was so beyond lucky. Early in my second trimester I got sick a hand full of times, nothing too crazy, but it sucks regardless.

Any weird cravings?
Fermented sauerkraut. IDK. I’m WEIRD.

What is your diet like now that you’re pregnant?
Same as before. Mainly plant based. I really try to eat as healthy as possible. No dairy. But if I see something that looks good, I am going to eat it, all in moderation. I always start my day off with a green juice followed by fruit. I ended up getting a juicer so I have more control over cleaning my veggies. I have avocado toast on sourdough bread everyday for brunch. I was doing Sakara for dinner, but it ended up being way too much on my stomach and I had to cancel. I added some fermented foods (SEE ABOVE) into my diet, I read that it helps improve mine and my babies immune system. I also read that your babies taste buds are being developed in the womb.  So trying to keep that in mind with what I’m eating.

What as been the worst part about being pregnant?
The mind fuck of the first trimester. Being that it’s my first pregnancy I just had no idea how scary it is. There are so many things that can go wrong, and I was beyond anxious to get all the crazy tests out of the way. Once everything was cleared, I felt a millions times better and was finally able to fully enjoy the excitement of it all.  The exhaustion is tough to deal with, somedays I just don’t have it in me to  do anything else besides workout and lay on my couch. Also, my boobs. I miss my small nonexistent boobs. They were beautiful and didn’t require a bra. Now my boobs are massive and in the way.

What has been the best part about being pregnant?
The best part is knowing that in a couple of months I am going to have a baby that is part me.  I can’t wait to be able to teach her how to be kind, and love animals, and to stand up for herself. I mean there’s literally a human growing in my belly that is going to be my bestie.  I’m not going to lie, the first couple of weeks I gained 10 pounds and I was having a hard time adjusting to the changes in my body. But now that I’m starting to actually look pregnant, I love it.

Any name ideas?
TOP SECRET. I had a secret girl name that I have loved forever, but I wasn’t sure that I wanted to go with it. The second I found out we were having a girl I knew that there was no way I wasn’t going to name her that.

Birth Plan?
I’ve decided to go with a midwife and HOPEFULLY give birth in a birthing center. I recently hired a doula, her name is Amethyst and I LOVE HER. The plan is to labor at home for as long as possible with my Doula, and then head to the hospital. I am trying to keep an open mind about everything because it doesn’t always go as planned. The goal is to go as natural as possible, but if complications arise my number 1 priority is whatever is safest for me and my baby. I’m reading up on Hypno-birthing. It’s basically a method of giving birth, and I’m into it.

Do you plan on breastfeeding?
That’s the plan. I will do everything in my power to make it work. Again, not everything will go as planned but I am hopefully optimistic that it will work.

Any books you would recommend?
The Vaccine Friendly Plan! – READ IT!!! It is not pro or anti vaxx- but it really helps educate you on what is really in all the vaccines, which ones are absolutely necessary, and which ones you can do with out.

Fashion wise- what has been your go to stores?
Ugh. This part is hard. I seriously miss my crop tops and high waisted jeans. I feel like in the warmer months it will be way easier. But being like 50% preggers in the winter is tough. I’m too big for normal clothes and too small for maternity clothes. Zara has been a life saver. That’s honestly my go to. Once I am bigger I am going to get some key pieces for Hatch. Shopbop has good options as well.

Any last advice?
My biggest piece of advice that I would share with any woman knowing that they want to get pregnant soon, is to start sooner than you think. It can take you 1 month, or it can take you 18 months. You really just don’t know. But waiting because you want a Spring or Summer baby is just silly. Life doesn’t / can’t always go as planned, and I learned that through this process. Also, stay away from google. It can make you crazy!!!

HIGHER DOSE

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Last week I got high naturally and it was awesome. Higher Dose is a newish spa located in the East Village (opening other locations throughout the city soon. TRIBECA!!! HAYYYYYY) that offers 30 or 60 minute sessions in their infrared sauna. Throughout the years I’ve always heard about the crazy benefits of Infrared so I was very excited to try it out. Infrared Saunas help you detox 7x more than traditional saunas. You’re basically burning calories, detoxing heavy metals and environmental toxins, boosting your serotonin, and relaxing all in a single session. What makes it different from a regular sauna is that the heat travels deeper into your body at a milder temperature causing you to sweat as opposed to just sitting in a hot room and sweating because it’s hot. YA FEEL ME?! To help you feel even better, they also have LED light therapy in every sauna. There are 6 different colors to choose from and each color holds it’s own benefits. ON TOP OF ALL THAT, they also let you DJ your own session. So make sure you have a killer playlist to sweat to.

Besides wearing comfy clothing to your appointment, my only other tip would be to bring a friend or a lovah. I brought my BFF Stacie, and it made the experience that much better- being able to catch up and laugh together, all while detoxing. I love alone time, I cherish it, but sitting alone in a heated box with no stimulation for 30 or 60 mins would get to me. JUST SAYINNNGGGG. To finish off our awesome time at Higher Dose, they offered Cryotherapy facials right after. Does this place get any better?! After the whole shebang, my mood was great, my skin was glowing but I was exhausted- I slept like a baby that night. I love that Higher Dose took a concept that has been around forever and made it very modern and trendy. I CAN NOT WAIT TO GO BACK. If you live in NYC or are here for a visit, definitely give Higher Dose a try!

Coconut Heaven

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Guys!!!! I want to tell you about an amazing NATURAL beauty product line that I recently discovered called Kopari. It’s made with 100% organic coconut oil and is sulfate, silicone, paraben, GMO, and toxin FREE! If you’re a summer gal like me, you spend A LOT of time in the sun. As amazing as the sun is, it can really dry you out! Your skin, your hair, even your feet. I’m so happy I found a one stop shop product line to help me moisturize, exfoliate, and shimmer all the way from my head to my toes.

Organic Coconut Melt  Hair mask, body moisturizer, and shaving “cream” all in one. I am obsessed with this. I rub in all over my body right after I get out of the shower. I even put it on my dog Eugene before bedtime to help with his dry skin. SMELLS DELISH.

Coconut Sheer Oil – Besides having amazing organic coconut oil it also contains anti-aging properties, never to early to start preventing wrinkles.  I started using this as a face moisturizer, and I love it.  It gives you a sexy dewy look that is perfect for the summer. You can also use it as a makeup remover, cuticle moisturizer, or to help tame those pesky hair flyaways.

Coconut Crush Scrub – If heaven had a smell I think it would smell a little like this. I use this all over my body in the shower a couple times a week.  I also started using it on my bikini area, and it’s really helping keep in grown hairs in check.

Coconut Body Glow – Who doesn’t love a good body shimmer!?! This stuff is the perfect amount of shimmer and sheen.  Apply before the beach/pool for a sunshine shimmer, or at night for some extra sparkle.

Swimsuit: Solid & Striped

ICE ICE BABY

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IMG_0458Cryotherapy, the new craze in the health and fitness world. The first time I tried it, I was hooked.  Cryotherapy is a process in which you subject your body to extreme cold for a maximum of 3 minutes.  In other words, you freeze yourself for 3 minutes in a “chamber” with a temperature as low as -230 F. You’re probably thinking why would anyone want to do this to themselves? Well, there are so many benefits that I think the real question is why would anyone NOT want to do this to themselves? Just to name a few….

  • Reduced Inflammation, swelling and pain
  • Faster recovery from training/ working out
  • Endorphin release
  • Cellulite Reduction
  • Boosts Metabolism
  • Burns 500-800 Calories per session
  • Collagen Production

This past fall I was in teacher training for the Tracy Anderson Method, aka the best workout in the entire world, but I will touch on that in a later post. I know this might sound a little dramatic, but I felt like an athlete in training.  This method really kicks your ass, and I mean that in the most positive way ever. I was probably working out 2-4 hours a day, 6 days a week.  I was constantly sore. No amount of stretching or massaging could help. Luckily, during my training I went to a seminar where The New York City Ballet dancers w
ere being interviewed.  One dancer mentioned how cryotherapy was a complete game changer for her in terms of easing her aches and pains. She would not stop raving about it.  The very next day I made an appointment at Kryolife in NYC.  My first time was even better than I could have imagined. I lasted the whole 3 minutes like a true champ.  Yes, it is REALLY cold, but it’s VERY doable.  My body felt incredible afterwards.  It was like I was gifted a new pair of legs after stepping out of the “cryosauna”.  Thankfully, I did the treatment at night, because I was EXHAUSTED afterwards. I slept like a baby. Since then, I’ve gone back about 7 times and it never fails to impress me. It actually gives me a burst of energy now, I love it.  I highly recommend trying this once, if not for the benefits at least you can get a cool instagram pic. HOLLLA

Lets talk about SKIN baby

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I’ve suffered with acne ever since I can remember.  Not the type of acne where you get one pimple and you complain that you have acne. Like, REAL acne.  Cystic acne all over my cheeks, crazy black heads in my T-zone, and nasty whiteheads.  It would get so bad at certain points, I would refuse to leave the house.  (Before you start judging me for complaining about something appearance related, I want you to know that I fully understand that in the whole wide world of problems this is nothing.) Having a bad breakout can really affect your self-confidence, especially as a teenager where kids are straight up ruthless. I tried everything; blue light, birth control, proactive, peels, etc.  You name it, I’ve tried it.  Now at 26, I can FINALLY say that I am starting to love my skin. It took a lot of time, patience, and consistency, but it was all worth it.  I found what helped me, and I feel like it would be a sin not share it with the world.

1. Find an aesthetician that knows what they are doing, and be consistent. Go back to the same person every time!  That way they start to learn your skin, and know what helps and what doesn’t help.  I go every month to the most amazing lady at Mario Badescu, Irina. (NYC PEEPS, you’re welcome). She knows my skin better then I do, and always knows how to fix it. I credit her for saving my skin.

2.Find skin care products that work for you.  I use all Mario Badescu products. They are super, super affordable, and very effective. Also, they don’t test on animals. (woo woo!)

3.Find a good dermatologist. One who is really going to take the time to figure this out with you. Honestly, I went on yelp and read reviews about every dermatologist in my area. I ended up deciding on Dr. Jaber in NYC, and I’m so happy I did. Instead of telling me what I had to do, he really took the time to explain to me what my options were and let me pick what I was most comfortable with. He ended up prescribing me an oral med; Spironolactone, and two topical treatments; Aczone, and Ziana.

4.  Last but not least, have a good routine. Below I listed all the products that I use, and the order in which I use them. CONSISTENCY is KEY!!!!

1.Wash: Acne Facial Cleanser AM & PM

2.Tone: Chamomile Cleansing Lotion or Special Cucumber Lotion  AM&PM.                 Chamomile I use everyday, the SCL is more intense and helps with break outs, but it tends to dry me out too much when I use my prescribed topical treatments. Pay attention to what is happening with you skin.  If it becomes too dry, just use the chamomile toner.

3. Acne Treatment: It tends to vary based on what is happening with my skin.                   Buffering Lotion -This is to be used to help with under the skin pimples. CYSITC ACNE.                        Aczone– Pea sized amount AM&PM. Ziana – PM 3x a week. I only use a pea sized amount mixed with moisturizer. It helps with blackheads and reducing the size of pores. Be careful with waxing and sun exposure when using Ziana. (When I say pea size, that is what I mean. Using more won’t make your acne clear up faster, it will actually do the exact opposite.) 

4. Moisturize: My favorite product ever-Herbal Hydrating Serum AM&PM. Ultra hydrator.  I put it under my Oil Free Moisturizer SPF 17. I prefer SPF 17 over the 30 for everyday use.  The SPF 30 tends to be a little too greasy for everyday use, but I do have it for summer months when I know I am going to be beach side.

      5. Masks: I try to use these masks as much as possible. Drying Mask– used to help dry up pimples and oily skin. I use this all over my face, or if my skin is dry I will just spot treat the broken out or oily areas (t-zone). Temporary Lifting Mask– A special occasion mask. Very firming, and helps to instantly minimize pore size. Don’t leave on too long, when it dries take it off! Healing & Soothing Mask. MY FAV. Soothes redness and irritation, and helps balance out other drying acne products. I use after drying and lifting mask, or if I need a hydrating boost.

     6. Extras: Rosewater-A refreshing hydrating mist. I use this all the time, especially in the summer months! Special Healing Powder– I use this to help with my oily t-zone throughout the day instead of a blotting sheet or powder. I also put it on any open, nasty pimples that I might get.